Today marks one month since "A" and I began hanging out. We didn't really start dating, persay, until about a week later. I know he remembers the date we met, when I told him I wasn't out looking for a relationship with anyone, having just broken up with someone a week prior.
Well, things can change and evolve, and try as I did to not fall for him, it happened. The difference, this time, stems from the fact that we were just friends having a good time and hanging out, nothing sexual whatsoever. Interestingly enough, I've never dated someone that I came to like as a person first. I don't know....it's just a totally different type of relationship than what I've experienced before.
My question is this: I don't want to get all crazy and do anything ridiculous for a one month "anniversary". I do want to show him that I care. I'm pretty masculine, and he's very masculine, and although he did give me a dozen roses for Sweetest Day, I don't think flowers would do the trick for him (like it did for my gay ass). What should I do? Like I said... nothing expensive, extravagant, or mooshy. I just want to give him something that reminds him that I think about him a lot and I honestly do care about him.
Give me some suggestions!? I think I'll give it to him this weekend or something.
About Me
- Joey
- Savannah, Georgia, United States
- Freshly 34 years of age. Moved north a bit, into South Carolina. Originally from Ohio. My dream is to go even further Southward. Enjoying life again like I haven't for several years. Definitely Happy.
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love notes get me everytime... not even the 'how do i love thee? let me count the ways?' but just the simple, 'hey, i like spending time with you, you're awesome' little thoughts.
one of my favorite emails was from greg (i'm sure you remember that cat from 2005ish), it's a simple two liner. we were working on revising my divorce papers (i was having hella drama with the ex) and he told me he'd send me an email with a copy of the revisions we had made- the email included no such thing, it did however say this: 'hi beautiful, i'm thinking of you. your ex is a shitbag.'
3 years later... i still smile about that email, and the boy who actually acknowledged that he cared sometimes. for me, the little things are where it's at.
good luck- let me know what you decide!!
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